Committment

I read one of the blogs that I have been reading daily. And she had found THE ONE..... She described how they met and finally after a few turbulent relationships, they finally got together. They met each other in school days and they only recently got together for 7mths and he proposed.

She mentioned in her blog....

"you don't need 2-3 years to know if the person is the one for you. if he/she is not the one, even if you are together for years doesn't make a difference cause he/she still will not be the one you want. If a person will change for you, he/she will do so within the first few months. If he/she is not willing, they will still be the same after 10 years."

"So how do we know if our bf/gf is the one for us? First, we have to commit ourselves to the relationship. Do not expect your partner to commit first. We have to first commit. He/she will feel the difference when you are committed and if they are the one, they will commit too. If not, then the 2 of you will part on a good note, and your true love will come eventually."

So I realised its all about committment. Do I have wat it takes for commitment or am I jus so scared of committing again?