Expectations & Hopes

Taking people for granted, expecting other people to take responsibility for your stuff, expecting people to understand your move without you opening your mouth, expecting compliance for your every command, expecting others to get blamed for your own incompetence, expecting people to appreciate you, expecting people to put up with your nonsense, expecting people to tolerate it when you judge people but fail to check yourself, expecting people to keep promises, expecting people to change.......

I guess everyone faces these in life. We expect too much. And when we dun get wat we expect, our bubble burst and we become bitter.

We cant depend on others, we need to depend on ourselves. Cos only we are responsible to ourselves and only we can answer to ourselves. So wake up and dun hope or expect that things will be wat you wished they were.

You can either stick with it, or leave it. Cos stubborness can never change. You can either close 1 eye or kick up a big fuss (but things will still be the same). Only tots that come from the heart can change everything. Only tots from the heart will make you understand. Only tots from the heart can give you hope and expectations. Dun impose your burden or responsibilities to others cos they dun need to answer to you, they dun need to be responsible for you. And dun ever get angry when you impose your responsbilities to them and things dun ever happen or dun turn out the way you wanted to, cos they dun need to answer to you, they are not responsible and only tots from the heart can make things work, other than that, DUN EVER THINK OF IT.

Certain things last only a certain period. Some people last longer than the others because they are really comfortable with wat they have - they do not expect and they do not hope much. Some people last longer because they are stubborn, they refuse to give up and acknowledge that there is a problem that need to be fixed. They take things for granted.

PS: Ignorance is bliss? Or ignorance is stupidity? When things go wrong, who need to rectify? The stubborn ones always think there is no problem, at least with themselves. Is there a problem? Is there really a problem??????